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Vinodsujan
Standard Member
Last active: over 12 months ago

49 Sacramento, California, United States

Male / Divorced / ID: 387223

Seeking Female 28 - 38 For: Friendship, Romance / Dating

Last active: over 12 months ago

Overview

Vinodsujan

He's Looking For

Education:

Masters Degree
Bachelors Degree, Masters Degree, PhD or Doctorate

Have children:

Yes - don't live at home
Any

Drink:

Don't drink
Don't drink, Occasionally drink

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Don't smoke

Religion:

Hindu
Any

Occupation:

Executive / Management / HR
Any

Member Overview

Like most immigrants to this country (USA) I (Vinod Sujan) was born and completed my undergraduate engineering education in India, finished Business School (MBA) in USA and have lived and worked as a software professional in Silicon Valley the past 18 years. During this time, I have had the opportu...
Like most immigrants to this country (USA) I (Vinod Sujan) was born and completed my undergraduate engineering education in India, finished Business School (MBA) in USA and have lived and worked as a software professional in Silicon Valley the past 18 years. During this time, I have had the opportunity to learn, grow in responsibilities, contribute to others, and be recognized for achievements. I was born in New Delhi, the capitol city of India in a very stable, strong and cultured joint family with a strong social circle. People born in a good family with strong values and strong social circles tend to be happier. To me, life is about being happy It is About sharing and giving It is about relationships. I live life like there is no tomorrow or as they say Life can be too short, LIVE IT. I follow my heart, in a responsible way of course. My college friend says "Eat the Ice Cream gracefully before it melts" Life is also too short to be negative and judgmental of others. We all have our faults and flaws, things said, things done that we are not proud of. When you think about it, basically it comes right down to learning as you live life and go through experiences! You learn who wants to share your world of inner friends and family and those trials and tribulations you have to be a better person. You learn who is worth being in your life and who truly wants to be and at what capacity. You learn who wants to be a part of your positive energy and the love and understanding. I have been fortunate to have support, wisdom and understanding of great friends, a very loving and affectionate family and accomplished colleagues. Like everyone else, my life has been shaped by those around me. Those of us who are the luckiest in their health and genetic endowment; luckiest in terms of family support, encouragement, and income; luckiest in their educational and career opportunities; and luckiest in so many other ways difficult to enumerate have the greatest responsibility to work hard, to contribute to the betterment of the world, and to share their luck with others. This Endowment is not our to keep forever. I want to use my Entrepreneurial mind-set to this purpose. I have the skill to get out of my comfort zone and to adapt to the environment. Integrity, Intelligence, and Energy are my key strengths. I also have the ability to articulate my point of view and am able to create a connection through my communication. My other strengths are I dream big, act with speed, solve problems, seize opportunities, experiment fearlessly, and I am very comfortable with ambiguity. At my workplace as well as at home, I energize people to work collectively. For me excellence is an intrinsic trait. When I want to do something, I am so persistent, dedicated and committed to it, that I live, breathe and feel it every waking and sleeping moment. I enjoy working this way and while most of the time, an 80% solution may be sufficient or rather most may not notice the difference, I must produce a 100%, for my own contentment and fulfillment. That said, it is impossible to live without failing at something either work or relationships. Unless you lived so cautiously that you might as well have not lived. In success and failure, you let humility guide you. Those who Failed on an Epic Scale have hit rock bottom and rock bottom is a solid foundation to build from. Failure sets you free because If it does not kill you, it makes you stronger. More than even persistence, I have grit and tenacity. What I regret most in my life are failures of kindness. Those moments when another human being was there, in front of me, suffering, and I responded…Sensibly. Reservedly. Mildly. In today’s society, the further up the socio-economic ladder people move, the less empathetic they appear to become. As people progress financially, they appear to become less ethical, more selfish and insular and less compassionate. I am working to change that because it will make me a better person. As we get older, we come to see how useless it is to be selfish – how illogical, really. We come to love other people and are counter-instructed in our own centrality. We get our butts kicked by real life, and people come to our defense, and help us, and we learn that we are not separate, and do not want to be.
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Seeking

If this is what you as a woman want, I am this guy. Read On: "Somewhere out there is a great guy who will not only want to introduce me to new things, but will also like to try some adventures that are new to both of us. He will not only put up with my whacky moods, but he may even think they're cut...
If this is what you as a woman want, I am this guy. Read On: "Somewhere out there is a great guy who will not only want to introduce me to new things, but will also like to try some adventures that are new to both of us. He will not only put up with my whacky moods, but he may even think they're cute, (even if he won't admit it). The man I would like to meet is confident, self-motivated, ambitious, and self assured, but isn't cocky with an over inflated ego. I’m looking for a companion - a partner with whom I can share my dreams and my life and be a part of his life, happiness and sorrows". And now my turn, this is what I as your Man want "I am looking for a loving, sincere and committed person who knows how to have fun. One who expects to be treated with respect and one who knows how to respect her life partner in an honest way". As one gets older the list of things we definitely don’t want in a partner keeps getting longer. Often people are unable to distinguish between style and substance. This over importance on the superficial criteria rather than the focus being on fundamental core values is a big mistake, very easily made, and almost always comes at a price. I like to read lots of books, listen to music all the time, travel to scenic spots around the world, party late night with friends, eat different cuisine, cook my own favorite Indian recipes, take lots of pictures, play basketball and run long distance. Success they say is a Journey, not a Destination. So far, I am enjoying the Journey with the blessings of my Parents and loved ones. I want to share my wonderful life with my new life partner and make it more enjoyable for both of us. I promise you I will make you smile and laugh every day of our life togeth
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More About Me

Vinodsujan

He's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Male
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
49
28 - 38
Lives in:
Sacramento, California, United States
Any
Relocate:
Willing to relocate to another country
Any

Appearance

Hair color:
Black
Any
Eye color:
Brown
Any
Height:
5'11" (181 cm)
5'5" (166 cm) - 6'0" (183 cm)
Weight:
68 kg (150 lb)
40 kg (88 lb) - 55 kg (121 lb)
Body style:
Slim
Slim, Average
Ethnicity:
Indian
Any
Complexion:
Wheatish
Any
Appearance:
Very attractive
Any
Physical / Health status:
Normal
Any

Lifestyle

Drink:
Don't drink
Don't drink, Occasionally drink
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Don't smoke
Eating habits:
Non Vegeterian
Any
Marital Status:
Divorced
Any
Have children:
Yes - don't live at home
Any
Number of children:
2
Any
Want (more) children:
No
Any
Occupation:
Executive / Management / HR
Any
Income:
$240,001 - $600,000 USD
Any
Residency status:
Citizen
Any

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
United States
Any
Education:
Masters Degree
Bachelors Degree, Masters Degree, PhD or Doctorate
Languages spoken:
Urdu
English
Mother tongue:
Sindhi
Any
Religion:
Hindu
Any
Caste:
Brahmin - Pandit
Any
Religious values:
Religious
Any
Cultural values:
Mixed Western and Indian
Any
Family values:
Conservative
Any
Family status:
Rich / Affluent
Any
Family type:
Joint Family
Any
Fathers occupation:
Finance / Banking / Real Estate
Any
Mothers occupation:
Education / Academic
Any
Number of brothers:
2
Any
Number of sisters:
0
Any
Number of brothers married:
1
Any
Number of sisters married:
N/A
Any
Nakshatram:
Don't Know
Any
Manglik:
Non Manglik
Non Manglik
Blood group:
O +
Any

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