nice guy looking for mostly nice girl

Andy (44) 

Male / Divorced / ID: 380034
Escondido, California, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 39
For: Penpal, Friendship, Romance / Dating, Marriage

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Education: PhD or Doctorate
Have children: Yes - don't live at home
Drink: Occasionally drink
Smoke: Don't smoke
Religion: Christian
Occupation: Technical / Science / Engineering

as a person I like to think of myself as confident but not a jerk. am a very humble person. my life experiences while varied and unusual are certainly no more important than yours. i don't know if i am Mr. Right you but i can guarantee that i am not Mr. Wrong. i understand that there's a tim...read more >>

as a person I like to think of myself as confident but not a jerk. am a very humble person. my life experiences while varied and unusual are certainly no more important than yours.

i don't know if i am Mr. Right you but i can guarantee that i am not Mr. Wrong. i understand that there's a time to give and be loving and understanding. i also believe in standing up for what I believe and not being walked on.

am ALWAYS there for my friends and loved ones. in the face of adversity i may walk away in peace but i don't run.

i care what people think of me because I believe in being the best man I can be. i may not change or succumb to their expectations but i care and appreciate their opinion. i want people who come across me to think "hey what a nice & cool guy". very little is about attention focused on me. my life's value is about the importance of ones own honor and respect for those around him.

i acknowledge the world is rarely comprised of black and white decisions while simultaneously recognizing the key to failure is trying to please everybody.

i detest negative talk with no constructive solutions. foul language and loud voices don't impress me.

i understand you know some rich people, have likely been to their house and played with their dog. am sorry but those stories won't do anything for me. however, if you can teach me something YOU have studied, researched, and spent time mastering then i am very interested.

i am good at what i do. my business is successful and has been so for a long time. i look continually for new places, people & experiences. my hobbies are wide and varied and i hope to expand mine to include some of yours.

was raised by two great parents. my father, my inspiration, taught me how important it is to treat a woman with love, respect and appreciation, to live quietly with confidence and that hard work trumps bs everyday. my mother taught me how to have inner strength and to never allow yourself to be walked upon.

i have neither tattoos nor a ponytail. i went to the gym but twice in 2012 and despite asking my stylist for a brad pitt haircut we really don't look alike. my credit rating is 700, i frequently forget where i've laid the keys, phone and more than once have broken several of moses' 10 commandments. so, no, i am not perfect. i am closer to perfection than some and further than others however through our friendship and association we will both move closer to a happier existence.

addition: we are likely not best suited for each other if you or others describe yourself as full figured, large and lovely or even a few extra pounds. sorry to eliminate some lovely girls but everyone has their own personal preferences.

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Gender: Male Female
Age: 44 23 - 39
Lives in: Escondido, California, United States Any
Relocate: Not sure about relocating Any
Appearance 
Hair color: Light Brown Any
Eye color: Hazel Any
Height: 6'1" (186 cm) Any
Weight: 91 kg (200 lb) Any
Body style: Athletic Any
Ethnicity: Caucasian (White) Any
Complexion: Fair Any
Appearance: Very attractive Any
Physical / Health status: Normal Any
Lifestyle 
Drink: Occasionally drink Any
Smoke: Don't smoke Any
Eating habits: Non Vegeterian Any
Marital Status: Divorced Any
Have children: Yes - don't live at home Any
Number of children: No Answer Any
Want (more) children: Yes Any
Occupation: Technical / Science / Engineering Any
Income: $120,001 - $180,000 USD Any
Residency status: Citizen Any
Background / Cultural Values 
Nationality: United States Any
Education: PhD or Doctorate Any
Languages spoken: No Answer Any
Mother tongue: English Any
Religion: Christian Any
Caste: Other Any
Religious values: Religious Any
Cultural values: Mainly Western Any
Family values: Conservative Any
Family status: Upper Middle Class Any
Family type: Other Any
Fathers occupation: Political / Govt / Civil Service Any
Mothers occupation: Medical / Dental / Veterinary Any
Number of brothers: 0 Any
Number of sisters: 3 Any
Number of brothers married: N/A Any
Number of sisters married: 3 Any
Nakshatram: Don't Know Any
Manglik: Don't Know Any
Blood group: Don't Know Any

interested in a male/female relationship sharing a variety of growth experiences. am looking for a pleasant personality coupled with wisdom beyond her years. the ability to handle stressful situations with a smile and a pleasant comment far outweighs a barbie figure, a manicure and 6" louboutin's...read more >>

interested in a male/female relationship sharing a variety of growth experiences. am looking for a pleasant personality coupled with wisdom beyond her years.

the ability to handle stressful situations with a smile and a pleasant comment far outweighs a barbie figure, a manicure and 6" louboutin's.

come in at peace with yourself and with me in who you are, what you are looking for, and what you expect from our relationship together.

photos will be supplied to all who request. be prepared to lay everything on the table in advance. proper communication is a must in these types of situations. i look forward to meeting you.

honestly girls, i spent nine years in university in a very technical field. if you struggled through jr high school we aren't going to have a lot of common interests.

if you look out the corner of your eye into the mirror and for just a small second think you may have seen a giant watermelon please do not select slim or thin or slender or petite. you know better!

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