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Trevor
Standard Member
Verified
Last active: over 12 months ago

53 Oakland, California, United States

Male / Single / ID: 1196430

Seeking Female 28 - 45 For: Romance / Dating, Long Term Relationship

Last active: over 12 months ago

Overview

Trevor

He's Looking For

Education:

Bachelors Degree
Any

Have children:

No
No

Drink:

Don't drink
Don't drink

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Don't smoke

Religion:

Other
Any

Occupation:

Entertainment / Media
Any

Member Overview

Before you write to me, there are a few things you should know: 1) I probably do not want children. 2) I am vegetarian and like eating healthy whole foods. 3) Although I am 51 years old, I look like I am 35. That is because I have eaten a healthy vegetarian diet since I was 15, I do ...
Before you write to me, there are a few things you should know: 1) I probably do not want children. 2) I am vegetarian and like eating healthy whole foods. 3) Although I am 51 years old, I look like I am 35. That is because I have eaten a healthy vegetarian diet since I was 15, I do not smoke, and I rarely drink. I am seeking a life partner - maybe a wife - with similar values. So here is what I want to know about you. Please answer these questions when you message me, OK? Do you have kids? Do you want kids? Or are you OK with no kids? If we became sweethearts, would you consider relocating to Oakland, California? (near San Francisco) Do you like partner dancing? If you eat animals, do you make a point of only eating humanely raised animals? Or do you want to? Or, are you vegetarian like me? If we want to get to know each other better, are you able to do a videochat with me? I love touch, hugs, and snuggling. I am seeking a monogamous long term partner who loves dancing and is generous with affection, deep listening, and cooking us beautiful yummy meals. FYI, I am a great vegetarian cook! I am a real estate investor. I am also a creative singer, songwriter, dancer, listener, and lover. My friends describe me as passionate, driven, and not afraid to take risks. Since I was ten years old, I have loved singing. Writing songs at my piano unleashes my inner Aretha Franklin. On Sunday mornings, you will find me singing at a Center for Spiritual Living, or shaking my butt at Ecstatic Dance in Oakland. You can see a few of my music videos on youtube, along with a 7 minute TED talk about how I overcame fear when I hit bottom. It is all here: https://www.youtube.com/c/trevorjustice Living in a sustainable way is important to me. So on our first date, I will be picking you up on my bicycle. Just kidding!… I would not embarrass you like that... it&039;ll actually be a kick scooter. On a serious note, I recently bought an electric car and put solar panels on the roof of my home. So now I power my car with solar! My politics are green but I relish making money. As a former salsa dancer, I dance like a Puerto Rican. And as a lover of gospel music, I sing like a black man I am very good at sensing when there’s chemistry, and I have never been afraid to make the first move. I am dependable, grounded, and an empathetic listener. People say I create a safe space to be vulnerable, partly because I reveal my own vulnerabilities first. When you need a shoulder to lean on, I will hold space. I might even serenade you. I have both yin and yang qualities. My skin is soft for a man. I can be softspoken in private, and when I open up emotionally, you can feel my heart. However, I am also realistic, practical, logical, and a natural leader who takes the initiative. I have led circles of men, I led the people who worked for me (before I sold my company), and I will lead you on the dance floor. I am seeking a woman who values this combination of feminine and masculine qualities.
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Seeking

I'm seeking a woman who shares these standards for a lifetime relationship... 1) Fun: we make yummy meals, laugh a lot, partner dance, maybe sing or run together and (???). You have a good sense of humor and love dancing with a partner who knows how to lead. 2) Believability: we keep agreement...
I'm seeking a woman who shares these standards for a lifetime relationship... 1) Fun: we make yummy meals, laugh a lot, partner dance, maybe sing or run together and (???). You have a good sense of humor and love dancing with a partner who knows how to lead. 2) Believability: we keep agreements, keep our word, and make choices that reflect our words. 3) Loyalty: we are monogamous and stick together through tough times. 4) Communication: We reveal our vulnerable truths and withholds using non-violent communication as best we can. 5) Responsibility: We recognize we’re always at choice, and acknowledge the impact of our choices. 6) We care about our impact on animals and the earth: We recycle and reuse. Whether vegetarian or omnivore, we make a point of eating animal foods derived from humanely raised, free range animals. (If you're vegan, you're already leading by example - thank you!) 7) Health: we value physical fitness, eat healthy organic foods, exercise, meditate, and get enough sleep. 8) Understanding: We help each other understand our respective needs and boundaries. In difficult conversations, we reflect our partner’s perspective so s/he feels heard. 9) Love: Respecting our own boundaries, we discover and offer our partner what s/he needs to feel loved and cared for. I lean strongly towards not fathering kids of my own. That said, I like kids. In 2015 I dated a single mom and had fun making meals and playing Scrabble with her two daughters. I am open to making a life with a woman whose kids spend part of each week with her, and part with their Dad. Bonus points if: - You want a monogamous long term relationship - You don't need to have children with your next partner - You have dark hair and/or skin - You cook yummy whole food meals - You're vegetarian or eat only free range organic animals - You enjoy partner dancing - You make people laugh with your sense of humor - Making love is your favorite thing to do with your partner
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More About Me

Trevor

He's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Verified
Male
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
Verified
53
28 - 45
Lives in:
Verified
Oakland, California, United States
Any
Relocate:
Not willing to relocate
Willing to relocate to another country

Appearance

Hair color:
Brown
Any
Eye color:
Brown
Any
Height:
5'7" (171 cm)
No Answer - 5'7" (171 cm)
Weight:
58 kg (128 lb)
No Answer - 62 kg (136 lb)
Body style:
Slim
Petite,Slim,Average,Athletic
Ethnicity:
Caucasian (White)
Any
Appearance:
Attractive
Very attractive,Attractive

Lifestyle

Drink:
Don't drink
Don't drink
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Don't smoke
Eating habits:
Vegeterian
Any
Marital Status:
Single
Any
Have children:
No
No
Number of children:
N/A
Any
Want (more) children:
No
Any
Occupation:
Entertainment / Media
Any
Annual income:
$60,001 - $120,000 USD
Any

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
Verified
United States
Any
Education:
Bachelors Degree
Any
Languages spoken:
English
English
Mother tongue:
English
Any
Religion:
Other
Any
Caste:
No Answer
Any
Religious values:
Not Religious
Any
Cultural values:
Mainly Western
Any
Family values:
Liberal
Any
Family status:
Upper Middle Class
Any
Family type:
Nuclear Family
Any
Fathers occupation:
Retired
Any
Mothers occupation:
Retired
Any
Number of brothers:
1
Any
Number of sisters:
0
Any
Number of brothers married:
0
Any
Number of sisters married:
N/A
Any
Nakshatram:
Don't Know
Any
Manglik:
Don't Know
Any

Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Concerts / Live Music, Cooking / Food and Wine, Dancing, Music (Listening), Music (Playing), Social Causes / Activism, Traveling

Food:

Middle Eastern, Greek, Indian, Thai, Vegetarian / Organic, Vegan, Mexican

Music:

Other, Dance / Techno, Jazz / Blues, Pop, R'n'B / Hip Hop

Sport:

Jogging / Running

More About Me

Favorite Movie:

Slumdog Millionaire

Favorite Book:

Dark Side of the Light Chasers

Favorite Food:

Thai, Indian, Ethiopian, Mexican, Middle Eastern, Greek

Favorite Music:

Singers like Amos Lee with bluesy, soulful voices, old school soul, funk, and R&B, gospel music, kirtan and devotional music

Dress Style:

Slim with good posture. I'm told that I convey "nobility". I wear colorful, sometimes flamboyant clothing when I go out socially.

Humor:

Sarcastic

Hobbies & Interests:

Dancing, singing, songwriting, jogging, lifting weights, cooking healthy vegetarian meals.

Travelled:

I've been to Okinawa, Bali, Yogyakarta, Tana Toraja, Brazil, Romania, the Czech Republic, Budapest and Vienna. Interested in many other places.

Cultural Adaption:

My last girlfriend was from China and we got along great. Before that I dated a Nigerian woman, and before that, a woman from Italy. Good chemistry with all of them.

Romance:

It could be in nature, near a mountaintop with a breathtaking view. Or it could be a festival with bands and DJs playing lots of great dance music.

Personality:

Creative, ambitious, funny, authentic, vulnerable, protective.

My Perfect Match is:

A environmentally conscious woman who likes snuggling, dancing, and cooking healthy meals, who is authentic, expresses her heart, and has a good sense of humor. Ideally a vegetarian, or someone who makes a point of eating humanely raised animals.

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