Meet NRI Singles

1 Honesty- Everyone goes on line to meet for their own reasons & many of them are not honest about who they are & it makes it hard for those who want to be true & to meet true people. I don’t want to be on line forever because I am not doing this for fun, but really just to find “ the one. 2 Trust- When we share our time being true & honest with each other, when we can share our deepest feelings about any & all things, it instantly builds that great foundation of trust. 3 Friendship- Best friends are found in people who are both honest & trustworthy. I have learned from my parents that a love that last forever begins on a foundation of friendship. They taught me that lust may lead to sex but is never a foundation to build on. They taught me how (their) friendship led to love & I still see them act a young loving couple. So, I am a strong believer in friendship first. Just know even if we never develop anything greater than a friendship (built on this honesty & trust), I will value being just your good friend. 4 Strength - There will be times when you have a very bad day & need to depend on “your friend to help you carry the load” , as your friend, take comfort that I will be there for you 5 Vulnerability- I learned from my mom that women hate when men who always “play macho”, when we act as though we do not hurt, or cry because if we do you may think us weak. I learned from mom that women find men who aren’t afraid to “feel” are thought of as strong & confident. I am still learning to be vulnerable, but I know she’s right. 6 Respect – I learned from my dad the value of being a good listener. I am not afraid to admit that women are a lot better at many things than men & I am not intimidated if my best friend has those qualities. 7 Love - It is just too easy for people misuse the word “love”. They use is so loosely, it often loses its’ meaning. I watch my dad still hold the chair for my mom, he still opens her car door & put the seat belt across her lap, they still hold hands & he won’t go to bed at night if she is not there. I have been shown by watching these two people who make it seem so easy, but have taught me that “true love” is hard work. Love, is making the other person feel good, & special. Love is thinking all the time about what would make their day, their life better. Love is being willing to take away their physical pain if they could. Love is finding the beauty in everything you do together, even if it is just sitting quietly together, doing nothing but being…together. 8 Security- When I find “my love” she will be secure. When I speak of security I am talking about being secure in our relationship, having the knowledge that I will not cheat on her, I will never betray her trust or break her heart. I am often described as “very sweet”, but I am no sugar daddy. 9 Family- I have an amazing, multi-cultural family. They have open arms & big hearts. I am very close to my family. I enjoy our time together. They are very family central & taught me early on, that you never marry the person, but you do marry (into) the family. They respect my boundaries & never get involved in my relationships & they will accept my “best friend” like their very own daughter & if they thought I was not behaving they would help her “ set me straight”. In our relationship it is important for her to know that I want us to always be growing. She would have a love for education & in great pursuits for knowledge & in building a career that would allow her to be whatever would bring her joy & success. I too have a huge thirst for knowledge & together can see us spending time supporting each other’s goals.